Being single when you really just want to share your life with another person can be hard. The search for that special someone can become especially tedious after one too many bad dates. But as a spiritual person, it’s important to keep your values in perspective.

Adventurousness
Try expanding your horizons. If you find yourself looking for love in all the wrong places, make it a point to go out of your way to do something different. Sign up for a new class, take a solo trip, or go to that party you didn’t feel like going to.

Compassion
In relationships, it’s important to be compassionate of course. But that doesn’t mean you have to wait for a relationship to express compassion. You can show compassion towards your friends, a homeless person, or even a disgruntled cashier. If you have the time, try volunteering at a local shelter or literacy program. Who knows, you may even meet someone who enjoys helping out as much as you do.

Gratitude
Be thankful for the love you do have in your life, whether it’s friends, family, or just your pets. Be thankful for all of the good qualities you have to offer; kindness, generosity, intelligence, etc. When you feel good about what you have to offer, you’ll be more likely to attract other similarly-minded people.

Spirituality
Focus on your own spirituality. Try finding out what is missing from your life so that you can understand how a partner can complement you. You may find yourself going to church or synagogue, or a yoga retreat. Think about your own spiritual needs. This is a great time to go inside and feed your own spirituality.

Optimism
Keep the faith and know that there is a right time for everything. No matter how hard it gets, keep your mind open to the possibility that love may be just around the corner.